ASMR Toxic Friend Story Time (Lo-Fi with Gum) 🍬


Mauve ASMR
发表 2年前

Telling you (with my lo-fi lav mic and some gum) about a toxic friend in college and beyond. There's a lot I left out but this will do. My hope is that it helps someone draw a similar line in their lives if need be 😊 ♥♥ M

0:00 intro
1:29 intention
8:05 story
50:39 final thoughts

P.S. If it helps, a few behavioral patterns I noticed were: reacts violently to noncompliance (ie. independence), encourages bad decisions, sabotages other relationships.

P.P.S. Forgot to mention that at the end of college he came out as gay. I point this out to say: the turbulence in our friendship wasn't really about the fact that I rejected him romantically.

I'm okay with people making mistakes. I'm not okay with people who don't make an effort to change. He never acknowledged or apologized for any of his actions or the hurt he caused. It's possible he's a different person now (equally possible he is not!) but either way, the take-away for me was: people show you who they are, and it's up to you to listen. It's always okay to walk away from anything / anyone that consistently makes you feel worse -- in fact, you'd be doing yourself a disservice if you didn't.

Finally, cutting someone off does not have to be a big to-do. Of course you want to be able to calmly explain your choice if necessary, particularly if the person in question doesn't understand what's happening. But it can also be easy. For me, I simply made an agreement with myself that I would no longer put energy into something that made me miserable. And then it fell away from me on its own.



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