ASMR Do you ACTUALLY know how to breathe? Real doctor teaches you depression self-care.

Today, for your ASMR depression comfort, with brushing, personal attention, and breathy gentle whispering, doctor Jen Finelli continues our Dialectical Behavioral Therapy "time traveling" discussion with breathing exercises to help you stay HERE. To get full benefit from this video, and be notified of new ones, get on my free weekly self-care list where we study evidence-based relaxation together: https://landing.mailerlite.com/webforms/landing/t7c1e8

THIS WEEK'S HANDOUT: https://drive.google.com/file/d/18isKfSiPC-kY3W2bmhdyfEqczPDt0PFN/view?usp=drivesdk

Finally, IF YOU DO NOT HAVE A THERAPIST AND NEED ONE, CONTACT YOUR LOCAL HEALTH DEPARTMENT OR USE MY LINK:

-- Phone number for suicide helpline US: 1-800-273-8255
-- Crisis text line: Text HOME to 741741 in US; Text 686868 in Canada
-- International suicide numbers: https://www.opencounseling.com/suicide-hotlines
-- FIND THERAPY. If you don't have a good therapist, I affiliate with https://betterhelp.com/doctorjen which you can use for online therapy at a 10 percent discount!
-- Victor Frankl’s logotherapy book helped me find meaning in my depression: https://www.amazon.com/Mans-Search-Meaning-Viktor-Frankl/dp/080701429X
-- This DBT Workbook by Matthew McKay helped me survive strong suicidal emotions: https://m.alibris.com/search/books/isbn/9781572245136

I really hope these resources help; they are evidence-based and they have helped me. If they don't help, go find some that do. Your life matters. I am not your therapist; I am a fellow sufferer along this journey, and I am telling you it can get better. If you are in danger right now, please go to local authorities to protect you from yourself. If you can't use the resources above, please consider going through the whole depression playlist on Actualdoctorasmr and working through the handouts in the descriptions. They are best used with a therapist, chaplain, pastor, wise old lady--someone who can help identify hurtful or sad thinking patterns--but they can also be used alone. Focus on the question of finding MEANING in your suffering. What are you willing to suffer for?

***To follow my tragic adventures as I demonstrate how the American medical training system is BUILT to create a shortage of doctors who care, please listen to my show on the Emergency Escape Podcast Network: https://emergencyexit.podbean.com/ Search the page for “Death & The Doctor”

There, you’ll hear about the deaths that convinced me we’re doing it wrong; my dream to take modern medicine to those who can’t afford it; and ultimately the reason I left the American residency system.

***Jen Finelli is a world-traveling scifi author who's gone swimming with sharks, escaped being locked in a German nunnery, discovered murals and poetry in underground urban caves, explored jungles and coral deserts, and hung out with everyone from dead people and prostitutes to secret political influencers and Senators. She is coping with life as an MD by telling you stories, and when she grows up she’ll be a superhero.

Science fiction: byjenfinelli.com
Upcoming film: mysweetaffair.com
Comics-character-who-kills-his-author: http://becominghero.ninja
Twitter: @petr3pan
Patreon: patreon.com/becominghero

***I am not your therapist. If you need your own therapist, please go to your primary care physician and ask them to refer you. Ask for someone skilled in CBT/DBT. Alternatively, there are therapists you can talk to online affordably. (betterhelp.com/doctorjen) While I am a real doctor, I am not YOUR doctor; nothing I say here is official medical advice, diagnosis, or disease treatment, because I have not physically examined or spoken with YOU. You have the power to fact-check me. My medical license is publicly searchable under the state of Virginia medical boards at 0101265916.

(All product links are not sponsors, but some are affiliates, which means clicking them supports my new creations and new charity projects! You can also join me for cool rewards at patreon.com/becominghero)

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